Tuesday, February 25, 2014

The Wacky AZ Bill


Okay, I wish I was inspired to write when I am not fired up.  I am fired up.  This may be the stupidest piece of legislation in the last 40 years.  This law opens the door to people to discriminate based on the false premise of religious freedom. If these “people” jonesing for their religious freedom would actually follow the teachings of the Savior they so adore—they would NOT CARE about the way others lead their life.  I am not saying we shouldn’t care about others—we should when referencing the true definition of “care” that includes words like “compassion.”  I hope that does not come off as mocking our Savior…I too am a believer. However, when I think of WWJD? I think, he wouldn’t pass this law.

Everyone is focusing on how this law  impacts the LGBT community, rightfully so—the genesis of this law involves someone who did not want serve a gay couple.  However, this law actually impacts EVERYONE!  I referred to Christians above, but there are 1,000’s of religions.  Heck, I can start one tomorrow.  Also, let’s get back to Christians.  (Again, not picking on Christians—I am one.)  If I was a single, divorced mom looking for a home—a realtor could choose not to take me on as a client because their religion forbids divorce.  Also, if I was part of a young, heterosexual couple living in sin, someone could refuse to sell us furniture for our house because their religion does not support intimate relations before marriage.  Do you see where I am going with this?  Remember our friends from the Westoboro Church?  Well, if one of their members owned a local hardware store, they could refuse a U.S. Marine because they believe our military is the root of all religious evil. Do you see where I am going with this?  These laws are very ambiguous and open the door for all sorts of discrimination.  No one is safe—even those who want this law.  Your local bar owner may deny a Christian  service because he does not believe Jesus is the Savior—he doesn’t believe in God at all.  Do you see where I am going with this? 

I will never understand why your religious beliefs have anything to do with mine.  I recognize they do for some reason—that is why there will always be conflict in the Middle East and now just about everywhere.  Why can’t we all believe in our own beliefs and not worry about our neighbor's?  As long as my neighbor is not harming, me, anyone else or even themselves, I am good with whatever they believe.  I do not have to be their friend.  However, it would be ridiculous if I couldn’t wave hello based on beliefs.

You know, back to my religion.  I have some beliefs—maybe I will start a religion.  I do not believe people should wear nylons with open toed shoes.  However, if I see someone sporting this look, I just cringe to myself.  The most important thing is I AM NOT WEARING IT, SO WHY SHOULD IT BOTHER ME THAT HE/SHE IS???  If I owned my dream bakery, I would still definitely sell this person a cupcake!( I highly recommend my Oreo Surprise!) Do you see where I am going with this?

Many supporters of this bill have brought up the Constitution. People like to hide behind the Constitution just as they like to hide behind religion.  The Constitution protects the FREEDOM and RIGHTs of all U.S. Citizens—so how does this bill do that?  Seems like you are protecting one and discriminating against the other? 

Another point shopkeeper who will not serve me,  how do I really know you are religious?  Now, I heard someone say should a Catholic priest be forced to marry a gay couple?  I would say NO.  At least we know he has devoted his life to his beliefs. (For the record, I am 100% for gay marriage).  How do I know that Sally the waitress has done the same?  She could be an atheist who does not like LGBT’s or people who are divorced, or people with tattoos-she could claim religious beliefs for all of these prejudices.

That is where these lines get crossed.  I also believe the wedding photographer should not have to sign the gay couple as clients.  Again, tricky. This profession includes art.  I do not why a gay couple would want an anti-gay photographer—I suspect he will not try his hardest to capture your special day. However, maybe the photographer could just say they were booked or washing their hair that day???  I haven’t figured all of this out yet.  I am just a mom after all.

To quote my friend Michelle on this topic:  If someone is truly religious then it would seem to me that no one would need to be discriminated against as we would just love all people and do unto others as we would have done to us.

Amen to that sister!