Rambling About the 2014 Oscars

2014 Oscars

I am cutting it down to the wire.  Here are my Top 10 movies of the year along with my thoughts on some of the nominees.  Note:  I did not see Wolf of Wall Street and Blue Jasmine.

Top 10 Plus (not in any order)

1.       Philomena
2.       Nebraska
3.       42
4.       The Way Way  Back
5.       Fruitvale Station
6.       Enough Said
7.       About Time
8.       Frozen
9.       12 Years A Slave
10.   Saving Mr. Banks
11.   Gavity/Her/Inside Llewyn Davis/August Osage County/Captain Phillips

 

I really enjoyed the 5 I have at 11. I think Her is one of the most original films in a long time.  I don’t think it gets enough credit for that.

 You will notice I do not have American Hustle on my list. I have to say,  I think that is one of the most OVER RATED films in a long time.  Was I entertained?  Yes. Were the performances very good?  Yes.  However, the story was not great.  In fact, it dragged for quite a bit.   Particularly, after the first 30 minutes until about the last hour.   Personally, I know many who enjoyed, but I don’t know anyone who thought it was great.   I don’t get the hype.  If it wins for anything tonight, I will be disappointed.  Well, of course if JLAW wins, her speech will be entertaining. There are far too many GREAT performances for an award to go to this movie.  Honestly, this is how I feel about American Hustle:  If Will Farrell played the Christian Bale’s character AND gave the same exact performance—people would look at this movie differently.  It was a bit of a sill story about a true incident. 

Personally, the movie I am pulling for the win doesn’t have a chance.  I think my favorite movie was Philomena.  It was a great story and the director told the story in a compelling way.  I think in the end, I like a story with people/characters that you can respect and root for.

 I think the performances in Enough Said were fantastic. For me, I am drawn to acting when there are no costumes, wigs, accents or gimmicks involved.  Julia Louis Dreyfuss and James Gandolfino played people we know.  Perhaps, people we are sometimes.  I think that is the hardest role to play and make it believable.  She made me forget she was Elaine, The New Christine or The Veep and of course  he made me forget he was Tony Soprano.

I think it is a shame 42 came out so early.  A fantastic movie with great performances.  Parents, have your children see 42.
 
Overall, a very good year for movies and better year for acting performances.   But for me, not a lot of standouts. My picks for tonight:

 Best Picture:  Philomena (I think 12 Years a Slave will win—I am happy with any win except Wolf of Wall Street and American Hustle.)

Best Actor:  Bruce Dern (I think it will go to Matthew or Chiewetel—all three deserve  it. I also believe Joaquin should be in this category instead of Bale. For that matter, so should Hanks for Captain Phillips)

Best Actress:  A tie for me with Sandra, Judi and Meryl. All great.

Best Supporting Actor:  Jared Lehto.  I will be surprised if he doesn’t win.  However, if Barkhad took it—what a cool win that would be!

Best Supporting Actress:  Lupita Nyong’, although would be very happy if June Squibb won.

Original Screenplay:  Her—if Her does not win this—it is a crime.

 

Enjoy the Oscars!

 

 

 

 

The Wacky AZ Bill

Okay, I wish I was inspired to write when I am not fired up.  I am fired up.  This may be the stupidest piece of legislation in the last 40 years.  This law opens the door to people to discriminate based on the false premise of religious freedom. If these “people” jonesing for their religious freedom would actually follow the teachings of the Savior they so adore—they would NOT CARE about the way others lead their life.  I am not saying we shouldn’t care about others—we should when referencing the true definition of “care” that includes words like “compassion.”  I hope that does not come off as mocking our Savior…I too am a believer. However, when I think of WWJD? I think, he wouldn’t pass this law.

Everyone is focusing on how this law  impacts the LGBT community, rightfully so—the genesis of this law involves someone who did not want serve a gay couple.  However, this law actually impacts EVERYONE!  I referred to Christians above, but there are 1,000’s of religions.  Heck, I can start one tomorrow.  Also, let’s get back to Christians.  (Again, not picking on Christians—I am one.)  If I was a single, divorced mom looking for a home—a realtor could choose not to take me on as a client because their religion forbids divorce.  Also, if I was part of a young, heterosexual couple living in sin, someone could refuse to sell us furniture for our house because their religion does not support intimate relations before marriage.  Do you see where I am going with this?  Remember our friends from the Westoboro Church?  Well, if one of their members owned a local hardware store, they could refuse a U.S. Marine because they believe our military is the root of all religious evil. Do you see where I am going with this?  These laws are very ambiguous and open the door for all sorts of discrimination.  No one is safe—even those who want this law.  Your local bar owner may deny a Christian  service because he does not believe Jesus is the Savior—he doesn’t believe in God at all.  Do you see where I am going with this? 

I will never understand why your religious beliefs have anything to do with mine.  I recognize they do for some reason—that is why there will always be conflict in the Middle East and now just about everywhere.  Why can’t we all believe in our own beliefs and not worry about our neighbor's?  As long as my neighbor is not harming, me, anyone else or even themselves, I am good with whatever they believe.  I do not have to be their friend.  However, it would be ridiculous if I couldn’t wave hello based on beliefs.

You know, back to my religion.  I have some beliefs—maybe I will start a religion.  I do not believe people should wear nylons with open toed shoes.  However, if I see someone sporting this look, I just cringe to myself.  The most important thing is I AM NOT WEARING IT, SO WHY SHOULD IT BOTHER ME THAT HE/SHE IS???  If I owned my dream bakery, I would still definitely sell this person a cupcake!( I highly recommend my Oreo Surprise!) Do you see where I am going with this?

Many supporters of this bill have brought up the Constitution. People like to hide behind the Constitution just as they like to hide behind religion.  The Constitution protects the FREEDOM and RIGHTs of all U.S. Citizens—so how does this bill do that?  Seems like you are protecting one and discriminating against the other? 

Another point shopkeeper who will not serve me,  how do I really know you are religious?  Now, I heard someone say should a Catholic priest be forced to marry a gay couple?  I would say NO.  At least we know he has devoted his life to his beliefs. (For the record, I am 100% for gay marriage).  How do I know that Sally the waitress has done the same?  She could be an atheist who does not like LGBT’s or people who are divorced, or people with tattoos-she could claim religious beliefs for all of these prejudices.

That is where these lines get crossed.  I also believe the wedding photographer should not have to sign the gay couple as clients.  Again, tricky. This profession includes art.  I do not why a gay couple would want an anti-gay photographer—I suspect he will not try his hardest to capture your special day. However, maybe the photographer could just say they were booked or washing their hair that day???  I haven’t figured all of this out yet.  I am just a mom after all.

To quote my friend Michelle on this topic:  If someone is truly religious then it would seem to me that no one would need to be discriminated against as we would just love all people and do unto others as we would have done to us.

Amen to that sister!

The Facebook Clown Police

Oh, how I have wanted to write this blog forever.  However, I have been hesitant.  I know some of you may recognize yourself and I do not want to offend anyone.  However, remember, these are just my opinions.  My opinions should not hurt anyone’s feelings; I should not have that power.  In addition, I am not delusional.  I know very few people read my blog! 

First, let me say overall, I love Facebook!  I truly enjoy hearing what new restaurant you’ve tried, I love seeing your first day of school pictures, vacation pictures and I enjoy reading about funny stories that happen in your everyday life. And contrary to public opinion of FB—I don’t even mind looking at pictures of your food!   I especially enjoy connecting with family and friends that I do not see on a regular basis.  That part of FB has been invaluable to me!  However, I think there should be a Facebook police squad.  They could enforce the rules in a fun way.  When someone breaks a “Facebook” rule a funny clown should appear on their screen with a caption that says “Are you sure you want to post that?”  Look, you are going to read this and say “Who does she think she is?  Do you think we enjoy when she posts an old song from the 80’s? Or, tells us for the 89^th time that she is cleaning her closet?”  I realize I make you all cringe sometimes too.  Facebook has its advantages and disadvantages. 

Here are some of the posts I would include as offenses to Facebook.  I also think you would be given X number of times before the clown pops up.  I do not mind the occasional breaking of the rules, but there are some MEGA repeat offenders out there! We are all human and will post something we later wish we did not.  If the Facebook Clown Police were on the job, maybe we would all harbor fewer regrets. 

Passive/Aggressive Posts

Listen, if you are going to post something, either post the entire story or do not post anything at all.  Better yet, confront the person you have an issue with directly vs. posting it on Facebook.  People create such posts for two reasons:  they want the person they are mad or upset with to see it and they want other people to comment and say things like “you are so nice, how could anyone be mean to you?” Prior to Facebook, where did you get your validation from?  Examples of PA posts:  “I give and I give and I am just taken advantage of” or “Some people never cease to amaze to me.”

Do not air your dirty laundry on Facebook

Remember how above I said tell the entire story? Well, I really didn’t mean it.  Do not air your dirty laundry on Facebook.  If you need to post it, if it makes you feel better just to get it out—post it so only you can see it.  (You can customize every post and specify who can see it).  Hopefully, you will feel the cathartic release you need—but you will not be subjecting your dirty laundry for all to see.  Think about it, would you stand in your town center and scream the details out loud for all to hear?  That is what you are doing on FB.  Let’s face it—you do not really have 400 close friends.  Many of those friends are simply acquaintances or people you have not seen since the third grade! 

Seflies! Aagh!

Okay, if you are older than 15—STOP with the selfies.  Seriously, if you want people to tell you how pretty you are or how young you look—just ask them.  I suppose a few selfies in a year is not a bad thing—but the typical selfie poster posts a new selfie at least once a week!  Seriously, when I turn on my camera and it is in selfie mode—I scream!!!  I scare myself! It is one thing if you are taking a selfie with the Lincoln Monument or Mt. Rushmore in the background—that is cool—but when you are by yourself in your living room?  I don’t get it. Especially when the next day a new one comes up—and guess what?  You are by yourself in your living room.

Chill With the Share Button

There should be a limit on how many “shares” a person can post a day. I would cap it at two.  I know people who reach at least 10 in a day.   I literally do not even read them anymore (or maybe ever).  If it is a quote, cartoon, etc. I just keep scrolling.  I will click on something once I’ve noticed a few people have posted it.  We know you love your kids, your sisters, your brothers, your cousins, your plumbers and newspaper carriers.  No need to post a lengthy quote to prove it.  If you are feeling a special kinship to a friend or loved one—post it to their wall or send them a private message--this will mean something to them. Better yet, use your own words to express how you feel.   Also, for you passive aggressive posters, no need to post the passive aggressive cartoons/quotes to express how frustrated you are with a friend or partner.  We already gleamed that through your posts!!!  (This also includes hot bodies, cute animals and all the jokes about how stupid people are!)

The Secretive Posts

Look, if you do not want the world of Facebook to know the details, just private message the person. A typical secretive post:  “I had great time last night with an old friend.  You know who you are.”  If this is JUST for that person, why are you sending it to ALL of your friends?  Just text the person or send them a private message.  I am sure that would mean so much more to them.  The friend you went out with is probably saying to themselves “I saw her last night, but I wonder if she is talking about me.  She could’ve seen another old friend yesterday too.”  Do not be ambiguous.  Either say it or don’t.

Commenting on Political and Religious Posts

I am not advocating ending all political and religious posts.  I am simply advocating kindness and respect when your opinion differs from others that are posting.  I think it is better to avoid these posts all together—and I typically take the approach that if I agree I will say so but if I disagree, I will pass on posting.  (This may not always be the case, but I try to use this approach.) For the most part, I witness respect more than disrespect—but when the latter is evident—it can get ugly.  What is hard with Facebook is you can't read inflection or tone and things can easily be misinterpreted.  So this is just the Hill Street Blues mantra….be careful out there!   (Yes, I am old.  I just quoted Hill Street Blues. Look it up kids.)

 

Negative Posts

Okay, I truly hesitated with this one because I feel two faced.  I feel like this is a negative blog--and I really do not like to be negative.  I am talking about the posts similar to this: “People are so annoying, I just don’t think there are any nice people left.”  Just take a deep breath and reflect.  I am sure you meet more nice people during your day than annoying people.  I know I do.   People are good.  Life is good. 

 

So, there it is.  I hope you are not offended or put off—just my two cents.   Some of you are now typing your “Blog Police Enforcement Rules”.    I get it, I get it!  I just hope you are not all wondering, is she talking about me?  If you are, no it is definitely not you!!  Enjoy your day!

 

 

Hi Friend! Do you really want to post that?

 

 

I'll Admit it, I Am Not A Fan of "Girls"

I so wanted to like this show.  I have now sat through 5 episodes and I don’t care if I see another.  Let’s just get the sex out of the way.  Yes, I think it is unnecessarily graphic; however, that is not why I dislike the show.  I could look past the ridiculous sex scenes and references if the characters were likable or funny.  (As the show is billed as a comedy.)  I find it to be dark and depressing with moments of comedy.  I went on to IMDB to read some reviews to see if anyone else felt like I did.  Funny, one person said she loved the first four episodes and thought it was very funny, and then it just got dark and depressing.  I don’t know-- it started out that way for me.

First, I understand how people in their twenties find it relatable from the perspective of relationships.  I get it.  I was once in my twenties.  I let a guy string me along because of his charm even though we broke up over and over again.  I look back and think, why did I stay in that relationship?  However, (to touch on the sex once more) I also grew up post the sexual revolution and I hope the way sex is treated on this show is truly not indicative of all people in their twenties.   Again, the sex alone is not why I am not attracted to DVR this show or watch the remaining episodes of season 1.  Whether I am reading a book or watching a movie or a show—I need to like the characters.  I semi-like Hannah (Lena Dunham’s character) I think I would like her more if we did not see her spoiled attitude towards her parents during the first episode.  When her parents delcared that after almost two years they were not going to pay her rent, her cell phone bills and give her spending money anymore, Hannah was stunned. WHAT???  You ungrateful BIATCH!  Why are your parents footing the bill for your life?  I guess this is more common these days compared to when I was in my twenties.  I would’ve been mortified to ask my parents to pay my bills.  In college, I did not even ask them to pay for Spring Break like many college students did, I just didn’t go.  I finally went my senior year, when I saved the money for it.  The thing is, they probably would’ve found a way to pay—but I would never have asked.  I think paying for my college education was quite enough.  So, episode one turned me off a bit to her.  I think if I started on episode two, I would feel more compassion towards her.  (Swirl Girl's kids:  I will happily pay your rent, the catch is, you have to be living under my roof.)

I also semi like Marnie and I actually do like Shoshanna.  However, they almost make her too cartoon like.  I dislike the British cousin and I despise Adam.  I was strung along by charm in my twenties.  Hannah mentioned that Adam’s charm strings her along.   What charm?  Perhaps I was completely blind too.  Adam does not have one redeeming quality about him.  He is rude, hurtful and completely vapid.  Watching Dunham’s character continually get reeled in by him and to not be true to herself  because of him is gut-wrenching and/or simply just annoying.  As for Charlie,  I just feel bad for him, not sure how I feel about him.

Is it a comedy?  I think it is a slice of life that shows the depressing side more than happy side. This is okay.  Depressing can be funny.  However, I don’t think they succeed.  So, if it was not billed as a comedy, I might also have a different perspective.  So far, in five episodes, my favorite scene was when Charlie and his band mate sang Hannah’s diary in front of them.  I thought that was sad, but also a tad humorous.

I also read a review that mentioned how surprised the writer was that a bunch of manly men she knew (the way she put it) also liked the show.  Honey, they are not interested in the dialogue—they are interested in the sex.  It is porn they do not have to pay for.  So, now that is the third time I’ve mentioned the sex.  Honestly, not the biggest issue I have with the show.  I’m just saying, I can see why some guys in their twenties will not mind sitting through this with their girlfriends. 

Almost every review mentioned how this was the anti Sex and the City as if Sex and the City is a bad disease you would not want to catch.  The main reason they say this is the anti SATC is because this is a true depiction of women in their 20’s living in NYC. They are broke and trying to find their way.  The SATC ladies led a bit more glamorous lifestyle.  The Girls ladies may be broke, but when parents are paying their way, how broke are they?  Also, let’s remember Sex and the City was about women in their late thirties and forties.  Perhaps Hannah and Marnie will be successful in ten years and able to afford their own apartment.  I cannot afford Minolo Blahnik’s like Carrie, but I could still relate to the friendships she had with the other ladies.  Carrie was also strung along by Mr. Big.  The difference is, they gave Mr. Big some likeable qualities and a mystery.  You always felt like he truly did like Carrie but was afraid of something.  Adam shows no signs of truly liking Hannah.  Aside from the back drop of Manhattan and the story being about friends, why do we have to compare the shows? (I know I just spent a good number of characters comparing the two, I guess it is easy to do.) I just figured out why—they each line up to one of the characters.  Hannah = Carrie.  Marnie = Miranda.  Shoshanna  = Charlotte (ironically, also almost cartoon like.  Seriously, who would wear some of those buttoned up shirts Charlotte wore?)  Lastly, British girl = Samantha. Okay, I will stop now.

I guess the last thing that bothers me about how popular the show is….do people just like anything because it is edgy?  Edgy is not always quality.  Oh and don’t tell me it is a typical Judd Apatow production, because I am a fan of Judd’s so I know what typical Judd is. At this point, I should have the desire to keep watching to see: when Hannah will finally rid herself of Adam, if Marnie and Charlie will finally break up (poor nice guy Charlie); will Shoshanna lose her virginity and will the British girl truly find her self-respect that she so proudly wears as a badge.

 

  I will say, whether I like it or not, I am happy for Lena Dunham’s success.  I think it is great that a female is making such a strong mark in the world of television.  Also, I have to like her, Mary Tyler Moore is also one of her all-time favorite shows! We share that. 

Random Thoughts After a Heavy Week

Random Thoughts After a Heavy Week

I hate the phrase guns don’t kill people, people do.

I think this is the single most idiotic phrase of any of the debatable topics in history.  If you want to stand up and protect the 2^nd amendment there are many more intelligent arguments you can use.  This is NOT one of them.  Guns do actually kill people.  On the death certificate it will say “gunshot wound”.  It will not say “some person.”  Yes, a person uses a gun, but that gun makes it so much easier for that person to commit murder.  A gun is the only the weapon solely used for the purpose of injuring.  I also dislike the argument that criminals do not obey laws, so they will not obey gun laws.  Ugh, people, get a grip.  I bet many of your hardened, repetitive criminals today are not using legal guns.  Those people, we may never get under control. However, many murders are not caused by your typical criminals.  The one off shootings of passion or the mass murder shootings are not caused by your typical criminals—and these folks typically obtain their guns legally.

I believe in the basic principle of the 2^nd amendment.  However, when you start saying we are dishonoring our forefathers by limited the choice of guns available, you are delusional and only seeing your side of the story.  Our forefathers could not have envisioned the 21^st century that we are living in today.  End of story.  Some of them were quite visionary but they were not psychics. 

My last point on this issue:  Many people wonder why people are protecting the right to own assault weapons.  Their answer is “our government has them and the idea of the 2^nd amendment is to protect ourselves against a government that goes awry.”  I do have enough paranoia in me (or I’d like to think it is logical thinking based on 1000 years of history)  to believe there could come a day in our country’s future when we are torn apart and we enter into another civil war.  However, if I use the logic that I need to stock up on assault weapons because my government has them, I guess I should also be assembling nuclear weapons in my backyard.  We live in a different world than our forefathers lived in.  You cannot deny that.

I was very happy to see gun enthusiasts on twitter stand up and say, if it means we can prevent a another mass tragedy, I am willing to budge on the gun control issue.  It just bothers me when people dig their feet in so deep to any issue that cannot imagine anything but their own point of view. We do not have room in our lives for people unwilling to listen and potentially compromise.

This leads me to my next issue..

Cynicism and extremism is just a sad way to live your life.

On that horrible day of the Newtown tragedies, President Obama became emotional during his initial comments. Or did he?  I follow people on twitter that do not typically share my opinions because I BELIEVE we need to hear all opinions to reach a conclusion.  We need to keep our minds open. One right wing conservative I follow immediately tweeted after the speech that Obama faked tears to get the left riled up about gun control. I tweeted him and said it was shameful for him to already jump to that conclusion, today.  He replied to me and said it was shameful for Obama to fake tears and use this tragedy for his political motivations.  I thought to myself, what a sad way to live your life.  Even if you believed Obama's tears were not sincere, could you not wait a day or two to proclaim that? It was the day of the tragedy.  It just made me think, has this person shed a tear for this tragedy? Obama is a human being; I think most humans shed a tear that day.  He is a father; I think most fathers shed a tear that day.  If you did not shed a tear, I am not judging, but I am willing to bet you felt something.  I believe he was sincere.  My feelings were sincere, why would his not be?  I truly felt sad for this person that they were so cynical THAT day, all they could think about was the politics.   A few days later, I unfollowed the person. He just kept spitting venom.  It is one thing to share your opinion, but do not drag down others in doing so.  This example is just another of extremists in our country (on both sides of the aisle) that are doing more harm than good.  We are so polarized; we cannot take the time to be empathetic?  I just find it sad.

I am fine with Happy Holidays.

So many people are expressing their anger over people not saying “Merry Christmas” anymore.  You know what?  I am fine with "Happy Holidays. I say "Happy Holidays" when I do not know a person.  I say "Merry Christmas" when I know the person celebrates Christmas.  I think it would be obtuse of me to assume everyone celebrates the holiday I celebrate.  Why would I wish a Jewish person “Merry Christmas?”  We live in a wonderful country where we have the freedom to celebrate any holiday we would like to, what is wrong with saying “Happy Holidays” to strangers?  I do not think it has anything to do with being politically correct, I think it has to do with common sense.

Finding Joy

Well, these random thoughts have been heavy; I want to end on a happier note.  In times of sadness, surround yourself with things that make you happy.  Like most folks, I was in a fog all weekend, crying and feeling sad for all the families impacted by the tragedy.  I almost felt guilty when something made me smile.  I then realized, you need to find the things that make you smile.  I drove by the old one room schoolhouse in our town.  The parking lot was packed.  I remembered it was Meet Santa and Mrs. Claus day.  I was so full of joy to see a crowded parking lot.  All of those little innocent children going to visit Santa brought me joy.  I know it is hard when you think of the little ones who are not able to do that this year, but we have to hold all those little ones that are here close to our heart.

Here is a random item that made me happy today.  I was listening to a podcast with Mel Brooks today.  It made me happy to hear that he and Carl Reiner get together almost every day and do comedy bits together, Mel still visits with Sid Caesar every other week, and he has breakfast with his comedy writer friends every Friday.  All of these friendships he has now had for 50-70 years!  It made me happy to think of how true friendships endure over time. 

 

Last example, my dear friends from EHHS.  A classmate was impacted by the tragedy in Newtown, his sweet little grand niece was a victim.  Classmates from nearby and afar came together to show their support.  I always knew EHHS was special and I always had a great deal of pride regarding the town I grew up in, but this confirmed it.

As another year comes to an end, I am always thankful for my friendships that have existed for over 40 years and for those that are brand new.

Wishing everyone a peaceful holiday season.  And a Happy Birthday in heaven to my mom!

P.S. If you want to debate my issues on the gun control issue, please sign into this website.  Please do not post your opinions on my Facebook link.  I do not think Facebook is the place for friends to debate this issue.  I will delete any negative posts on FB.  I am happy for you to post any of your opinions on this site.

Swirl Girl's Favorite Things

I love Oprah's Favorite Things episode.  This year, she aired a 2 hour special that took us behind the scenes of favoritie things!  It was very cool!  Well, I'd like to share some of my favorite things with you.  I think some of them make great gifts for people!  Hopefully, it will help you as you shop this season.  These items are not in any particular order.

Harry Connick Jr. When My Heart Finds Christmas - this is my favorite Christmas CD. Harry mixes some fun, upbeat tunes with traditional classics.  I have given this CD as a gift many times!



BeautiControl Instant Manicure - this is one of the best beauty products out there!  It is a hand scrub that leaves your hands silky smooth.  I try to use it twice a day during the winter.  When I am good about using it--I never have dry hands or cuticles during the winter.  (If you'd like to try it--let me know--I can order it for you at a discount!)



The Body Shop Mango Body Butter - I have used this product for years.  I use it at least twice a day and it truly softens your skin!


"Can You Keep A Secret" by Sophie Kinsella -- I LOVE this book.  I have read it at least three times!  It is laugh out loud funny.  The book is not deep or try to solve world peace--it is simply a romantic comedy on pages. 



Smart Touch gloves by Isotoner - I just bought a pair of these last week and LOVE them.  You can keep your gloves on and use your touchscreen phone.



Unreal Chocolate Caramel Peanut Nougat Bars - Okay--they market it as "healthy" candy--I get it--there is no such thing!  However, these are yummy.  They claim there are no artificial ingredients, no preservatives, no GMOs, no hydrgenated oils and  no corn syrup.   So lets just say they might be a tad healthier than  a Snickers bar?  They are individually wrapped little squares--so it is just enough to quench that chocolate craving when needed.

Venus Disposable Razors--Once you go Venus--you can never go back. There is just something about a Venus razor that makes me pay a little more than I need to for a razor.  What I do love about Venus is that I can buy the "heads" to the disposables in bulk at Sam's Club.  I appreciate that they make replacable heads for their disposable razor.  Swirlgirl's guy also loves them. After I bought him a bulk package of Gillette men's razors--my shower razor was still disappearing to his sink.  He finally confessed he liked my razors better.



Naples Valley Brand Strawberry Pineapple Jam -  I order this jam by the case because it is the only brand I have found to combine these two flavors.  I discovered at a crafts many years ago and have been hooked ever since.  It is my favorite pairing with peanut or almond butter.



Barney's Almond Butter - speaking of almond butter--so far my favorite is Barney's.  I like the way it spreads and it is yummy. (Available at Whole Foods)



SpiBelt Running Belt - This is great for the walker/runner in your life.  This tiny little pouch wraps around your waist and holds your cell phone, license, money and even keys.  (Bulky key rings not so much but one or two keys, yes.)  This is available at Dick's Sporting Goods for $19.99.

 

Walking Food Tours of NY - This is a great gift to share with people.  You can buy gift certificates.  I have done the tour of Greenwhich Village, but I look forward to doing another location in NYC.  I have given my inlaws gift certificates 3 times--hopefully they are telling the truth when they say they enjoy it!!  The link to the site is below.
http://www.foodsofny.com/greenwichvillage.php

Bobby Brown Cream Eyeshadow - This is the reason I venture to Nordstroms.  This is the best eyeshadow I have ever used.  It is also a great base to use with powder eyeshadows.  I use "Heather". It is very neutral.  (the one on the far right in the picture.)



Sequence - I love games.  It was hard for me to choose one.  I chose one that (I think) appeals to everyone.  This is a fun game of strategy.



BeautiControl Lip Balm -  A product I use at least twice a day.  It truly protects the lips and wards of chapped lips. (Again, if you'd like to order, let me know.)




From The Earth To The Moon Box Set-- I love this series.  It is a great fictional depiction of the space program.


Maybelline XXL Collasal Mascara - I like this because it has the primer on one end and the mascara on the other.  I rarely use mascara, but when I do, this is my product of choice.



24 Cup Cupcake Pan - It is no secret that I love to bake.  Well, when I first saw this product, I thought to myself "OMG--why aren't all cupcake pans made like this!"  A cake mix makes 24 cupcakes, why have we been putting them in two different pans for so many years???!!!!

Pampered Chef Large Bar Pan - I use this pan for anything and everything.  However, the primary use for this pan is BROWNIES.  Many people seem to love the brownies I make in this pan. They ask me my secret.  Well, there is no secret, except for the pan.  It takes two boxes of your favorite mix.  (My other secret is I use "dark chocolate" mixes.  I do not like dark chocolate--but in a brownie mix--it is awesome!)  The brownies come out thick, chewy and delicious!


Mini Speaker for your iPod.  I am not even sure which brand I have, but it does look like this.  It is perfect when you want to amplify your iPod speaker a bit.  This is a mini speaker--it will not work for your next Rager.  (Yes, I just used the word Rager.)

Pumpkin Spice Eggos - Yes, I love them--all year round!




UGGS-- an annual favorite on Oprah's show.  I truly think UGGs are UGLY!!  However, they are so warm, cozy and easy to wear.  You are technically not supposed to wear socks with UGGS. That is why I love them.  You can just slip them on without trying to find a pair of matching socks in the house!  I know they are VERY expensive, however, they will last forever and will forever keep your feet toasty warm.  If you want to treat yourself, splurge a little on a pair.  Do not try the "imitations". Some of them are expensive too and they do not last as long.  I know many who have tried and then just bought the real thing.

Lastly, my most favorite thing:  A VACATION!  Specifically to Disneyland or Disneyworld!!


 I hope you enjoyed this list!  I am sure as soon as I post it, I will think of something I forgot!! (Please note:  not one cleaning product made this list!!!)

America: Take A Chill!

America, please take a chill!  So your guy lost.  Get over it.  If you have truly followed politics in the last 30 years, you should know that it does not matter who truly steps into the role of President.  Don’t get me wrong, I get it, leader of the free world, blah, blah, blah.  As a President, you have the house and senate to deal with—you are not making all the decisions by yourself.  The items that concern the American public on an everyday basis are not simply decided by the President.  However, on truly big issues, I think it does matter who fills those shoes.  For me, big issues include immediate threats to our country and natural disasters.  If you think the President is solely in control of gas prices, outsourcing jobs overseas, etc. you are delusional. Do they have an influence and impact? Yes.  I  believe 30 years ago they had more of an influence than they have today.  Today, they are dealing with two parties that absolutely refuse to get along and go out of their way to slander and demean each other.  Seriously, I’d rather deal with Regina George and the Plastics than the whining politicians of the Republican and Democratic parties.   I have said it before; I am unaffiliated for a reason.  I want to look at each candidate as an individual and I do not want to fit myself into a box. 

I’ll be honest, I typically vote for the Democratic presidential candidate.  However, there was one time since 1988 that I did vote for a Republican candidate.  (I wonder if you can guess which one. ) In 1988, I wanted Dukakis. I was a huge Dukakis fan!  In 2000, I wanted Gore. (Let us not forget, he won the popular vote!!)   I voted for Clinton too, but I don’t remember being as excited about him. I just wonder if the sting of Dukakis losing caused me to be cautious. 

When Dukakis lost, I did not rip Bush apart, call him names or vow to move to Canada.  I showed him the respect a President deserves.   I truly do not understand the “hate” people feel towards Obama.  I do not feel that type of hate towards anyone I know, let alone, someone I do not know personally.   I think everyone feeling that type of hate toward a man they do not know personally and towards a man who literally has the weight of the world on his shoulders should sit back and reevaluate their life. I am also speaking to those who felt such hatred towards George W. 

The worst part about the Obama haters is the ridiculous stories they cling to, for example:  he wasn’t born in this country and he is a Muslim.  First, my question is so what if he is a Muslim?  I thought I lived in a country where a person of any religion could be elected President. Secondly, if you are going to rip on him, don’t cling to urban legends.  Criticize his policy or practices. 

I am not the biggest Obama fan, but I do believe he has the best interests of our country in mind.  As I believe Romney did.  They just have different paths to achieve those goals.  I believe multiple paths can lead in the right direction.   I actually worry about those I consider “infatuated” with Obama.  Just as I do not understand the bitter hatred, I do not understand the blind love.  However, those that know me, know I do not like to put anyone on a pedestal.  We are all humans with strengths and weaknesses.   I think they are blinded by his charisma.  Look, I voted for him both times.  (Now you can figure out where I did not vote for a Democrat).  However, he has not had an effective or impactful four years.  Yes, I know he inherited a mess, but still, he does not have a lot to show for the last four years.  He brags about passing health care reform. Well, I truly disliked the way that happened.  He bullied his way to pass a plan quickly.  It is convoluted and complicated.  If you want true reform it has to be less than 1600 pages.  I cannot blame him for the 1600 pages; I have EVERY elected official to blame.  They play this game: well, I will vote for that if you include this, etc.  Politicians, chill, focus and think about your constituents, remember us? 

Okay, back to the infatuation factor.  I recognize he is charismatic and one of greatest orators of our time, but I want to see progress and vision.  I do not just want to hear about it.   I am infatuated with Seth Meyers and George Clooney, not the guy who has his hand on the red button.   (Remember the red button? Cold War flashback.)  I think the infatuation factor leads to people liking someone for the wrong reasons or blindly defending anything they do.  Instead of hatred and infatuation, we just need to keep an open mind.  Accept differences of opinion.  Show Tolerance.  Be kind. 

Romney fans, you know what really hurt his campaign? The right wing extremists known as the Tea Party.  I believe the Tea Party is the biggest threat to our country.  They are expanding the wedge between conservatives and liberals to the point we refuse to tolerate other ideas.  We cannot survive as a free country this way.  I truly worry for the future of our country if we cannot pull together.  Greater empires than ours have collapsed throughout history.   (I also think tying his dog to his roof didn’t help either.  I mean really, what was he thinking?) 

If Mitt ran against Barack in 2008, I may have voted for him.  I wanted Barack to run in 2012, I thought 2008 was too soon for him.  I wanted someone with business experience and Mitt does have that.  However, the Republicans gave us McCain/Palin.  Truthfully, I wanted Hillary in 2008, but that didn’t happen either.   I do not care that Mitt is rich.  Guess what?  Obama is pretty wealthy too.  Have you seen pictures of his house in the affluent Chicago suburb?  It is pretty nice.  Who cares how much money they have?  If I did not vote for Mitt because he was born with a silver spoon in his mouth it would be the same as not voting for someone based on their skin color or religion.  We need to learn to vote based on character, practice and policy.

Another big difference between the two is their views on gay marriage.  I fully support gay marriage, so you’d think Obama would be a no brainer for me.  Well, call me cynical, but one person has to be for it and one as to be against.  I believe Obama truly does support gay marriage, but I do not think he is going to do anything on a federal level to facilitate equality laws for gay marriage.

So, I have digressed from my original topic.  Romney supporters, get over it.  It is okay to express disappointment, but do not express hatred and resort to calling names like bullies do on the playground.  You have more class than that, don’t you?

(P.S.  Just think, the next presidential election cycle starts in 24 months!)